1.) Attitude:
towards others and self. Attitude shows in your face and it either repels or
attracts. This is the first law of attraction. Your attitude plays a very vital
role in attracting and retaining relationships. Do you often transfer aggression?
2.) Fictional
expectancy: most people are pregnant with some fictional stories they read from
romance literature Fictions are not real, they are someone imagination of a
perfect life which only exist in his/her mind. Look at everyday life (dad
&mum, uncle & aunt and draw your prototype from them while adding
faith to ask for something better.
3.) Expectation
flaws: expectation in itself is not bad, it is when wrong assessment and
assumption corrupt expectation that create the flaws. Are you pushing everyone
away before you get to know them? My advice would be, have very many friends of
the opposite sex you can choice from. Don’t create a fixed-guff disparity
because you are expecting one prince-charming or a prom-queen.
4.) Cooked
meal: the bitter truth is that there are no finished products out there when it
comes to a partner to marry. He/she needs you to complete the meal. It is part
of your job to cement the character that came to you with your goodness and
make it better. And please there no one anywhere how can meet all your needs
(only God). If he/she can meet your financial needs, he might not be able to
meet your emotional needs, and so goes the list.
5.) Others
opinion: take it from me, other peoples’ opinion is just an observation, your
choice is what matters. If you are waiting for everyone to agree that your
admirer is good for you, you might as well wait forever. What do you want? Not
because, most will admire him/her when him/her has these qualities. What
qualities can you live with for the REST OF YOUR LIFE?
6.) Glued
to traditions: some of us are tied down by some outdated traditions. If are do
that or that they will think am a flirt. He/she should be the one to do that
and that.
7.) Religion without a life: this kind of tie some
people’s attention on the church (their local church) and if their destined
partner is not in that local assembly they are doomed to grow old without a
spouse. Widen your scope and get a life. This doesn’t mean you should marry
someone that is not saved. But your local church is not the only place where
Christians are. And if you don’t associate with others how will you know
whether they truly saved or not. So please, get a social life and be purposeful
about it.
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