Dear ladies,
Firstly, if you are still struggling to find a husband at an old age because you are looking for a perfect man, Something is certainly wrong. Now, your propaganda magazine tells you that 'All men are liars, cheats and useless, but let’s be honest here, which is more likely? Is it that there’s something wrong with about 70 million African men, OR there is something wrong with one African Woman, you.
The Truth is this when a product is not doing well, the sales team doesn't blame the customers, they either blame the product or sales and marketing strategy. So ladies, have you been marketing yourselves? What’s your Marketing strategy? Do you think you will be picked out of the shelf and placed in the basket of matrimony if you are not always hanging out with that coven of witches you call friends?
Those ladies who intimidate any man who approaches you. Hmmmm drinking yourself to stupor every Friday and Saturday night does not exactly make you look like a marriage material. Neither will any product (you) do well in the market if the sales team (you) reeks of desperation. Nagging, whining only tells a man that he is watching a preview of what life will be like if he walks down the aisle with you. If your precious Ex's all complained about your Nags, get a gag!
You want a man?...invest in a good wardrobe, and dress well. When a man comes to you, smile and be polite, even if he does not fit your mental image of your kind of man. At 18, most ladies already have an image of her perfect man, which includes height, body type and wealth. As time goes on, a lady will add more and more qualities on her list, such that by the time she is dating for marriage, not a single man alive can meet her exact standards.
Ladies, stop coming to relationship with a chip on your shoulder. If you believe All men are 'Bad', all men are Dogs, then it will become a self fulfilling prophesy. No man is perfect, if you want to find a perfect man, you will have to do a genesis chapter one and make him out of clay, and breathe life on him. And even then, chances are, he may still disappoint. You say you can't marry a blue collar guy like a mechanic or carpenter. Now if a carpenter was good enough to marry Mary mother of the Jesus Christ, why isn't one good enough for you?
Do not focus on where a man is now, but look and see where he has the potentials to be. Don't focus on some petty physical features that are not up to your Mexican soap-opera standards. Hmmmmm, your dream man, will he be faithful? Will he be a good father to your kids and a good husband to you? Will he love, cherish and respect you? What’s the point of been beaten to a pulp every night by some rich, good looking and womanizing jerk?
Do you want a future where you will sit in a traffic in your BMW X6, GUCCI sunglasses covering your swollen eyes and you look out of the window and see a happy couple in a keke napep holding hands, laughing and giggling like newly wedded couple even after 12 years of marriage. Africa (NIGERIA) is full of good men, you are just so caught up daydreaming about your fantasy man that they are passing unnoticed before your very pretty eyes.
Don't be cynical, fussy and uptight. Improve your product, and how it’s marketed and the demand for it will grow through the roof. And remember you are competing in a modern African market. Don't fake pregnancy or get pregnant to trap him, e no dey work again joor! Your perfect man is out there. He may not look like what you want or expect, but if you give him a chance, the two of you will find joy, companionship and completion like you have never thought possible.
Everybody can love a rose, but it takes a great heart to include the thorns……..wish you the best in your quest for a life partner. Good morning World Movers.
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